Sensitivity Difference Between Men and Women

Science Says that sensitive power of women's skin is more as compared to the men's skin. "From birth, girls are dramatically more sensitive to touch and, as an adult a women's skin is at least ten times more sensitive to touch and pressure"* as compared to man's skin.

Can you describe in details?

We know that, in our skin which  is around two square meters contains 2,800,000 receptors for pain, 2,000,000 receptors for cold and 500,000 receptors for touch and pressure.

The hormones is called oxytocin "stimulates the urge to be touched and fires up our touch receptors"*. So due to oxytocin hormones the touch and pressure receptors of women is ten time more sensitive as compared to the touch and pressure receptors of men. And also for women "attach so much importance to cuddling their men, children and friends"*.

One thing you remember "women love 'staying in touch' and dislike those who 'get under your skin'. They talk about 'feeling', giving someone 'the personal touch', being 'touchy' and annoying people by 'rubbing them up the wrong way?"*

Science says that "under pressure men avoid touch and retreat into their own world."* But under pressure, women love touch "not for the sex, but for the intimacy of touch."**

"Other research found that women who were neurotic or depressed recovered much more quickly according to the number of time they are hugged and the duration of the hug."***

When a women says to a man 'don't touch me'. It means she is either emotionally cut off to the man or may be angry a man. So my friends to win her heart you must "use lot of appropriate touching but avoid grouping"**.

Reference Books:

1. John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
2. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India 2006(* page no. 35, ** page no. 36, page  no.34)

Why Men Can't See Butter in the fridges and Women Hit the Car in the front and Back

We know that men have long distance tunnel vision and women have wide peripheral vision.

Can you tell what is advantages and disadvantages of long distance tunnel vision and wide peripheral vision?

Generally when men open the fridge for butter of jam etc. they can't see. But when women come, they quickly find the jam or butter in the fridge.

Again question is rised why women can see butter or jam in the fridge but men can't ?

We know that women have wide peripheral vision. Due to this vision it allow them to "see most of the contents of a fridge or cupboard without moving her head."*

Science says that due to oestrogen hormones she easily " identify matching item in a drawer, cupboard, or across a room and later remember objects in a complex random pattern - such as where the butter or jam is in the refrigerator."*

Due to the tunnel vision man can't see the butter or jam in the fridge. And also science says that when a man searching butter or jam in the fridge, he actually "searching in the fridge for the word B-U-T-T-E-R"* or J-A-M. " If it's facing the wrong way, he virtually can't see it"*. Not only this "men move their heads from side to side and up and down as they scan for the missing objects."* This is the reason when men searching an objects, he move their head. This is the disadvantages of the man's long distance tunnel vision.

In a statistics of a car insurance companies tells that in an accident women are hit less in the side as compared to men.

Why?

Because " women greater peripheral vision allow them to see traffic approaching from the side. They are more likely to be hit in the front or back of the car while attempting to reverse parallel park"*. But due to long distance tunnel vision men less hit front or back of the car.

Reference Books:

1. John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
2. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India 2006(* page no. 24)

Why men and women get this types of vision difference

In my mind a question is raised how women developed wider peripheral vision and men developed long distance tunnel vision?

In the past women has a played a role as home improvement committee or nest defender, so she " needed eyes to allow a wider arc of vision so that she could monitor any predators sneaking up on the nest"*. So she developed wider peripheral vision.

In the past man have played role as a lunch chaser and a hunter, so he "needed vision that allow him to zero in on, and pursue, targets in the distance. He evolved with almost blinked vision so that he would not be distracted from targets."* So he developed long distance tunnel vision.

This is the reason "why modern men can find their way effortlessly to a distance pub, but can never find things in fridges, cupboards and drawers."*

Reference Books:

1. John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
2. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India (2006)( * page no. 22)

Why Women are wider peripheral vision and men havr long distance tunnel vision

Not only women have more white fibrous coat and more variety of cone-shaped cells in the retina, but also they have wider peripheral vision as compared to the men vision.

Science says that women are wider peripheral vision and men are long distance tunnel vision.

Can you explain what is women's wide peripheral vision and men's long distance tunnel vision?

Science says that woman brain is programmed for wider peripheral vision. It means she can "receive an arc of at least 45 degree clear vision to each side of her head and above and below her nose. Many women's peripheral vision is up to almost 180 degree."*

And science says that men brain is programmed for long distance tunnel vision. It means he can "see clearly and accurately directly in front of him and over greater distance. almost like a pair of binoculars".* And also science says that the eyes of the men are larger as compared to the eyes of the women.

Reference Books:

1. John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
2. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India (2006)( * page no. 21)

Vision Difference Between Men and Women

Modern science says that men and women vision is also different.

How?

In our eyes, the eyeball is covered by a thin layer is called Fibrous Coat. The colour of fibrous coat is white. It allows in the eyes for the movement of the eye balls. And also help "the direction of the gaze which are vital to human face-to-face communication"*. The fibrous coat of the women eye display more white as compared to the fibrous coat of the men eyes.

Why?

"Because close-range personal communication is an integral part of female bonding and more white allows a greater range of eye signal to be sent and received in the directional that the eyes moves"*.

 

Science says that women can describe more colour details as compared to the men.

How?

We know in our eyes the retina contains from 110,000,000 to 125,000,000 rod - shaped cells is called photoreceptors. The rod-shaped cells (photoreceptors) handle black and white. And also our retina contains from 63,000,000 to 68,000,000 cone-shaped cells. The cone - shaped cells handle colour.

Science says that in our body X chromosomes provide these cone-shaped colour cells. We know that women have two X chromosomes and men have one X chromosomes. It means women have two X chromosomes, so they have more variety of cone shaped cell as compared to the men. This is the reason "a man will use basic colour description like red, blue and green, but women will talk of bone, aqua, teal, mauve and apple green."*

Reference Books"

1. John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
2. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India (2006). (* page  no. 21)
3. Dr. Krishna Kant Pandey, "Rachana sharir (Comprehensive human anatomy)" , Varanasi: Krushnadas Academy,1993
4. Dr. Krishna Kant Pandey, "Kriya-Sarira (Comprehensive Human physiology) ", Varanasi: Krushnadas Academy
5. Dr. Chintamani Kara "Higher Secondary Psychology Part-1" New Age Publication, Cuttack, 2007 (Oriya)

Why Teachers and Parents Complained Boy's don't Listen

Teachers and parents complained everywhere boys are not listening.

Why?

Because science says that when a boy grows "particularly approaching puberty, their ear canals undergo growth spurts then can cause a temporary form of deafness"*.

In the school" if a girl refuses to keep eye contact while the teacher berates her, a female teacher will continue the reprimand. If a boy refuses eye contact, many female teacher intuitively understand that he probably either can't her or is not listening, and will say 'look at me when i speak you' ". This is the reason "female teachers have been found to reprimand girls differently to boys"**. This is the reason why "female teacher have been found to reprimand girls differently to boys"*

Reference book

1. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India 2006(* page no. 31 and ** page no. 32)

Why Women Read between the lines or men can't

Allan and Babara Pease wrote very simple language, so i just copy what they wrote in their book. "Women have superior sensitivity in differentiating tone changes in voice volume and pitch. This enables them to hear emotional changes in children and adults. Consequently, for every man who can sing in tune, there are eight women who can do it, This is the ability goes a long way to explaining the women's phrase, 'Don't use that tone of voice with me!' "*

Why women has ability to read the lines and men can't?

Because in the past she played the role as a home-improvement committee, she needed a brain software for read between the line of adult, children and other women for creating better relationship. But in the past man played the role as a lunch-chaser and a hunter, so he didn't need for this work.

Reference Books:

1. John Gray "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", HapperCollins Publishers, India (2008)
2. John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
3. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India 2006(* page no. 30)